When I showed up at that gathering, I was awkward, for sure. My Virgo brain was running a mile a minute, cataloging everything. But I found myself actually talking to him, not in a forced “dating game” way, but just like two people catching up. We ended up having a really long conversation in a corner, laughing about stupid things. It wasn’t some grand romantic movie scene, it was just…easy. Different. And that easiness, for me, was completely unexpected. Over the next two weeks, he suggested getting coffee. My usual me would have found an excuse, worried about the commitment, the implications. But the “letting go of control” idea was still buzzing. So, I said yes. And then yes again to dinner. I found myself just showing up, just enjoying the conversation, without the usual internal monologue of “Is this going somewhere? What’s his long-term plan? Is he ‘the one’?” I simply went with the flow, which felt utterly foreign.

By the end of May 2017, things were undeniably different. That casual acquaintance and I weren’t “in love,” but we were definitely seeing each other regularly, having real conversations, and building a genuine connection. It was a slow burn, not fireworks, but it was honest and refreshing. It truly started because I chose to step outside my usual, highly controlled comfort zone, prompted by a silly horoscope. Was it magic? Probably not. Was the horoscope accurate in predicting my fate? Hard to say. But what it absolutely did was give me the permission to try a different approach, to loosen my grip on the reins of my perfectly planned life. It made me say “yes” when my inner Virgo usually screamed “no,” and that made all the difference. Sometimes, you just need a little cosmic nudge to push you into trying something new, even if it feels a bit rough around the edges.

https://aboutvirgo.com/ https://aboutpisces.com/ https://blood-c.com/ https://interpreteddreams.com/

トップ   新規 一覧 単語検索 最終更新   ヘルプ   最終更新のRSS